Marriage Tips For him
Understand that she has walked into a totally new house, new atmosphere and new people. Give her ample time to settle down, get used to the conditions and react. Give her, her own space. Make her feel comfortable. Take initiative to ask her about her specific needs. You will be the one she will look up to, in the first few days, more than anyone else in your family. So give her company as much as possible. Wait till she understands your family members and your own specific demands. You can explain it to them as and when it comes up. For eg: you can tell her that you need a bed coffee and not a bed tea on the first day morning of your married life, instead of shouting at her. If your spouse is a working women, understand that she also needs as much rest and relaxation as you. Lend her a helping hand in house-hold works like cooking, cleaning, washing etc. Talk openly about your problems or misunderstandings and encourage her also to do so, because an open talk can sort almost everything out. Most importantly understand that nobody is perfect, even you.
Marriage Tips For her
Realize that you are going to a totally new house, atmosphere and going to mingle with totally different people. Also realize that they are the ones who are going to be with you for the rest of your life. Try and adapt to the new living conditions at the earliest. Talk openly about your inhibitions and specific requirements. Always greet your spouse, when he returns from work with a warm smile instead of rolling out the list of complaints and demands. You can always talk it over the table or in bed. Understand that he might be having tensions from office which he may not be willing to pass on to you. Again, most importantly, understand that nobody is perfect, even you.
Hope these words help you to lead a happy married life. Wish you all the joy and luck..!!
