Archive for marriage
October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged Kashmiri, Kashmiri Sikh Marriages, Kashmiri Sikh Matrimonials, Sikh Marriage, Sikh Marriages, Sikh Match Making, Sikh MatchMaking, Sikh matrimonials, Sikh Wedding
We recognize our social responsibility and use every opportunity to find suitable match for Kashmiri Sikh bride and grooms. So if you are looking for a Kashmiri Sikh life partner there’s no need to go anywhere, We at eMatrimonials.com help you to find a wonderful life partner and make sure that when you meet your Kashmiri Sikh Life partner, you both tie the knot of traditional Kashmiri shaadi with the blessing of Guru Granth Sahib and your elders.
Majority of Sikhs migrated to Jammu & Kashmir during partition of India from punch and other parts of Pakistan most of Sikhs living in Jammu camp areas. A traditional Kashmiri Sikh wedding described as “Anand Karaj” – a ceremony of bliss, usually takes place during the day. It is a family orientated, joyous and festive event. The wedding ambiance is set almost a week before the wedding. There are various rituals, which are followed before and after the wedding. Shagun or engagement is the first ceremony to mark the beginning of the wedding celebration. On this occasion the two families exchange precious gifts to conform the engagement. Among the other wedding rituals Chunni, Mehndi, Chooda Ceremony, Ghodhi Chadhna, Milni are some of the important ceremonies.
October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged Kashmir, Kashmiri, Kashmiri Punjabi, kashmiri punjabi bride, kashmiri punjabi grooms, kashmiri punjabi life partner, Kashmiri Punjabi Matchmaking, Kashmiri Punjabi Wedding, life partner, marriage ceremony, punjabi, Punjabi communities, Punjabi culture, punjabi shaadi, Punjabi wedding, rituals and ceremonies, suitable match, traditional punjabi shaadi, wonder life partner
We recognize our social responsibility and use every opportunity to find suitable match for Kashmiri Punjabi bride and grooms. So if you are looking for a Kashmiri Punjabi life partner there’s no need to go anywhere, We at eMatrimonials help you to find a wonderful life partner and make sure that when you meet your Kashmiri Punjabi Life partner, you both tie the knot of traditional Punjabi shaadi with the blessing of your elders.
The Punjabi’s within India maintains a strong influence on the culture of India and the perceived culture of India towards the rest of the world. Punjabi communities are found largely in the Jammu region of Jammu and Kashmir. Punjabi wedding traditions and ceremonies are traditionally conducted in Punjabi and are a strong reflection of Punjabi culture. While the actual religious marriage ceremony, there are commonalities in ritual, song, dance, food, and dress. The Punjabi wedding has many rituals and ceremonies like Roka, Mehndi, Chunni chadana, Sangeet etc. that have evolved since traditional times.
October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged Bakkarwal life partner, Bakkarwal Wedding, Gujjar marriages, Gujjar match making, Gujjar wedding, Kashmiri Gujjar, Kashmiri Gujjar Life Partner, Kashmiri Gujjar Marriages, Kashmiri Gujjar Matrimonials
The nomadic hill people of Kashmir, are called Gujjar & Bakkarwal, has big population. Most of the herdsmen by occupation are found in most parts of Jammu and Kashmir. Some well-known Gotras of them are: Bakarwal, Bhati, Bhumbla, Chandel, Lodha, Bhensi, Chechi, Chauhan, Choudhary, Khatana (related to Khotan).the Gujjar of Jammu & Kashmir have retained these gotras and marriages in same gotra is strongly prohibited.
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October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged Buddhist Life partner, Buddhist Match Making, buddhist of ladakh, Buddhist wedding, kashmiri buddhist, kashmiri buddhist bride, kashmiri buddhist grooms, kashmiri buddhist life partner, kashmiri buddhist marriage, kashmiri buddhist matrimonials, ladakh buddhist, ladakh wedding, Ladakhi Match Making, Ladakhi wedding
Ladakh is known as the ‘land of the Lamas’ and the Buddhist of Ladakh prefer to call their religion Lamaism – which is much the same as Mahayana form of Buddhism. The wedding day of Buddhist is begun at a local temple where the couple separately asks for the blessings of Buddha. Both bride and groom are then dressed in outfits traditional to their region. At the mutually auspicious astrologically designated wedding time, the bride and groom are individually taken to the shrine room of their local temple or a hall hired for the occasion. Here, the couple sees each other for the first time on that day.
The ceremony begins as the entire assembly recites the Vandana, Tisarana and Pancasila readings. The couple then lights the candles and incense sticks surrounding Buddha’s image and offers him the flowers within the shrine. Because of the secularity of Buddhist weddings, there is no assigned set of marriage vows. However, the bride and groom will recite their expected undertakings using the Sigilovdda Sutta as a guide. After Sigiloydda Sutta speaks the vows, the bride and groom can exchange rings. If monks are present, their chanting will precede the marriage vows.
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October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged dogra language, Dogra Life Partner, Dogra Match Making, Dogra Shaadi, Dogra Wedding, dogri language, gotra, kashmiri bride, Kashmiri Dogra, Kashmiri Grooms, kula, life partner, marriage type
Dogras who inhabit in to the hills is surrounded by mountains of Kashmir Valley on the South and extended to the plains of Punjab. The word Dogra is derived from a word meaning the two lakes, as the original home of the Dogra people as situated between the lakes of Surinsar and Mansar. They speak the Dogri language- a mixture of Sanskrit, Punjabi and Persian. Some dogra still follow type of marriage, which is called ‘Dohry’ (Double) – take a daughter and give them your daughter. ‘Gotra’ and `Kula’ exogamy is maintained. In the hilly areas of Udhampur, Kathua and Doda people also take concubines termed as ‘Duals’. Among the Dogras of Jammu and Kashmir, the nose ring is important. The groom’s family sends their gifts to the bride before the wedding.
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October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged Kashmir, Kashmir Matrimonials, Kashmiri, Kashmiri Birdes, Kashmiri Culture, Kashmiri Grooms, Kashmiri Hindus, Kashmiri Match Making, Kashmiri Pandit, Kashmiri Pandit Bride, Kashmiri Pandit Grooms, Kashmiri Pandit Wedding, Kashmiri Wedding
The Kashmiri Hindus, or Kashmiri Pandits, as they are generally known, have a rich culture and peaceful traditions that they have managed to maintain over five thousand years of recorded history. Most Kashmiri Pandits are devout Shaivites, The wedding of Kashmiri Pandits consists of elaborate rituals. Beautiful clothes, traditional gifts, quaint ceremonies and mouth-watering meals prepared by the family cook, mark this happy occasion with ceremonies like Devgon, Duribat, Livun, Wanwun, Maanziraat, satraat, Roth Khabar to make it unforgettable for the couple and all those invited. Some common Surnames of Kashmiri Pandits are: Kamboj, Sandhu, Gill, Bedi, Siddhu, Sodhi, Ahluwalia, Garewal, Kairon, Rarewala, Chimni, Sukhurchakia, Kaul, Raina, Matoo, Tikoo, Dhar, Razdan, Haksar, Pundit, Kar, Bhatt.
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October 17, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged Kashmiri, Kashmiri Match Making, Kashmiri Muslim Wedding, kashmiri nikaah, Kashmiri shaadi, muslim marriages, muslim match making, muslim nikaah, muslim wedding
Kashmiri Muslim weddings are rich in social customs and ceremonies. For a whole week before the wedding, celebrations are starts in the homes of the bride and groom. Kashmiri Muslim weddings feature the vazwan or special cuisine prepared by the bride’s side for the groom’s relative and natives. Muslim weddings generally feature a mehndi ceremony (Manziraat) when the bride is decorated a day before, the nikaah or wedding ceremony when the Imam and elders officiate and pronounce the union, of the couple. The wedding ceremony like Nishaani, Manziraat, Vardaan, Ruksati, Khabbar, Phirsaal extends till seven days filled with fun and amusement of Kashmiri weddings. Some common surnames of shiyas are: Husain or Hussain, Khan, Mirza, Shirazi.
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September 28, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged bad relationship, benefit from marriage, friendships, Marriage counseling, marriages, relationships, sadness, tension, worry
Most marriages and other relationships aren’t perfect. Each person brings his or her own ideas, values, opinions and personal history into a relationship, and they don’t always match their partner’s. Those differences don’t necessarily mean your relationship is bound for conflict. To the contrary, differences can be complementary — you know the saying about opposites attracting. These differences can also help people understand, respect and accept opposing views and cultures.
But relationships can be tested. Differences or habits that you once found endearing may grate on your nerves after time together. Sometimes specific issues, such as an extramarital affair or loss of sexual attraction, trigger problems in a relationship. Other times, there’s a gradual disintegration of communication and caring.
No matter the cause, distress in a relationship can create undue stress, tension, sadness, worry, fear and other problems. You may hope your relationship troubles just go away on their own. But left to fester, a bad relationship may only worsen and eventually lead to physical or psychological problems, such as depression. A bad relationship can also create problems on the job and affect other family members or even friendships as people feel compelled to take sides.
September 28, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged anger, communication problems, couples, couples counseling, heal wounds, Illness, infidelity, marriage, Marriage counseling, marriages, relationships, sex, wedding
Illness, infidelity, sex, anger, communication problems — all can contribute to distress in marriages or other relationships. Marriage counseling or couples counseling can help resolve conflicts and heal wounds.
Your partner comes home from work, makes a beeline for the liquor cabinet and then sulks off silently. You haven’t had a real conversation for weeks. A few arguments over money or late nights out, sure, but no heart-to-hearts. Sex? What’s that?
Your relationship is on the rocks, and you both know it. But you aren’t sure how to fix things — or if you really want to.
It may be time for marriage counseling. Marriage counseling can help you rebuild your relationship. Or decide that you’ll both be better off if you split up. Either way, marriage counseling can help you understand your relationship better and make well-thought-out decisions.
What is marriage counseling?
Marriage counseling, also called couples therapy, helps couples — married or not — understand and resolve conflicts and improve their relationship. Marriage counseling gives couples the tools to communicate better, negotiate differences, problem solve and even argue in a healthier way.
Marriage counseling is generally provided by licensed therapists known as marriage and family therapists. These therapists provide the same mental health services as other therapists, but with a specific focus — a couple’s relationship.
Marriage counseling is often short term. You may need only a few sessions to help you weather a crisis. Or you may need marriage counseling for several months, particularly if your relationship has greatly deteriorated. As with individual psychotherapy, you typically see a marriage counselor once a week.
September 28, 2008
· Filed under marriage · Tagged bride, groom, life partner, marriage, marriages, matrimonials, Sikh matrimonials, wedding, wedding processions
LEADERS of Delhi’s Sikh community have called for an end to lavish weddings featuring meat and alcohol on the grounds they encourage the dowry system and female feticide.
The Delhi Gurdwara Management Committee, the city’s top Sikh body, has told the capital’s one million Sikhs to boycott weddings that are not teetotal, vegetarian and over by noon.
Similar measures are being considered in other Indian cities.
Sikhs are supposed to avoid unnecessary expenditure, but their weddings have become increasingly ostentatious in recent years. Many last for days, beginning with the groom’s procession to the bride’s home and culminating in a banquet and dancing into the night.
The committee has ordered Delhi’s 350 gurdwaras (Sikh temples) not to issue wedding certificates to families who ignore its guidelines. Those who hold wedding processions in the evening will not be allowed to marry in a gurdwara.
“Our fight is against the exploitation by those who pose demands on the girl’s family to organise elaborate weddings,” committee president Paramjit Singh Sarna said. “It is this splurge of wealth on ceremonies which is promoting dowry and practices like female feticide.”
Although it is technically illegal to demand a dowry, most Indians ignore the ban.
The bride’s family is expected to pay for a sumptuous wedding and give the groom’s family cash and gifts. As a result, daughters are traditionally seen as a financial burden and many Indians kill newborn girls or abort female fetuses.
The Indian Medical Association says about five million female fetuses are terminated every year.
